Dating relationship with single parent
I know how hard it is to be single and wanting companionship, [as I've been there], but, please, do not be foolish and get more attached to this guy [fall in love with him] and get hurt or slammed in the end.Wishing you the best, judith Rather than worry about the ''real'' man you're dating or ending it why not start a conversation about money, hard as that is. Unless you can speak honestly about such difficult subjects as money and values and expectations within the relationship you don't have much to base a real relationship upon.I have dreams of traveling the world with Mike and being the one to share a glamorous life.I have a feeling that Mike may want to get married and that is exciting.
Maybe by being more genuine yourself, you will meet someone else more genuine? What does being intimated by the wife have to do with anything?After I talked with some friends, I went to the courthouse and reviewed Mike's public divorce file.I just want to know if his ex will be knocking on the door for support and money and taking away from the life Mike and I will have. While I won't go into details, what I read in the file was not the Mike I know and, his wife gave him the house, the country club membership and she pays him child support. She has a successful business, is well educated and she's younger than me.He's telling you stories [lying] to you] of how he acquired his wealth.If he's lying to you about something like this, then there are more lies to come.
Tell him your financial situation honestly (maybe he's pursuing you mistakenly as another cash cow! Depending on how such conversations go, you can more realistically assess whether to stay or move on.